Tackling Parental Overwhelm: 3 Effective Tips
Parenting is hard, and moments of overwhelm can leave you feeling out of control. Whether it’s the chaos of daily life or the pressure to meet unrealistic expectations, parental overwhelm affects us all. Learn what causes it and discover three effective strategies—like getting curious, self-soothing, and reshaping your internal narrative—to manage stress and find calm amidst the chaos.
Five Ways to Embrace Being Good Enough and Banish Mom Guilt During the Holidays
In my previous post, I explored the harmful impact of the Supermom myth. Now, let's talk about how to break free from these impossible standards. In this post, I’m sharing five actionable strategies to help moms embrace being “good enough” and banish the guilt that often comes with modern motherhood.
Moms Aren’t Special: Releasing the Supermom Myth to Fight Mom Guilt During the Holidays
Society places impossible expectations on mothers, especially during the holiday season, casting us as “superhuman” and capable of doing it all—from gift shopping to festive planning—without missing a beat. These unrealistic standards leave us battling guilt and shame when we can’t live up to the myth. In this post, I unpack the Supermom myth, explore the roots of mom guilt, and explain why letting go of these harmful beliefs is essential for our well-being. Ready to fight back against mom guilt and embrace imperfection this holiday season? Let’s dive in.
Five Ways to Embrace Being Good Enough and Banish Mom Guilt
In my previous post, I explored the harmful impact of the Supermom myth. Now, let's talk about how to break free from these impossible standards. In this post, I’m sharing five actionable strategies to help moms embrace being “good enough” and banish the guilt that often comes with modern motherhood. From practicing self-compassion to evaluating the media you consume, these steps can help you reconnect with what really matters and let go of unrealistic expectations. Ready to start feeling more empowered in your parenting? Let’s dive into the journey of self-acceptance and release the pressure to be perfect.
Moms Aren’t Special: Releasing the Supermom Myth to Fight Mom Guilt
In my years as a psychologist specializing in perinatal mental health and parenthood, I’ve come to a startling conclusion: moms aren’t special. Society places impossible expectations on mothers, casting us as “superhuman,” capable of doing it all. This unrealistic standard leaves us battling guilt and shame when we can’t live up to the myth. In this post, I break down the Supermom myth, discuss the roots of mom guilt, and explain why we need to release these harmful beliefs for our well-being. Ready to fight back against mom guilt and embrace imperfection? Let’s dive in.
Parenting Your Nonbinary Child
Supporting a nonbinary child is an ongoing journey that begins with understanding and empathy. By listening to your child's experiences, educating yourself on nonbinary identities, and fostering a safe and inclusive environment, you empower your child to live as their authentic self.
Gender Disappointment
Gender disappointment is a shorthand way of describing numerous reasons why someone has a preference or feels disappointment about the sex of their baby.
Interviewed for The Financial Times "Inside ‘gentle parenting’: No punishments. No timeouts. No bribery."
But there is something off-putting about the confluence of social media and for-profit parenting advice. Emma Basch, a Washington DC-based therapist who frequently works with mothers of young children, says she has watched various parenting trends come and go, almost like fad diets.
Interviewed for Very Well Mind on Prenatal Depression
If you are at high risk of developing prenatal depression, Dr. Basch recommends starting therapy while trying to conceive or early in your pregnancy to maintain your mental health throughout the perinatal period
10 Ways to Raise Body Positive Kids in a Body Negative World
Recently, weight watchers has gotten into some hot water for promoting a dieting app designed for children. In my opinion …
Why I’m Leaning Back This Year
Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead was published when I was pregnant with my first child, but I had long before ingested her message. I grew up in DC, a city of working moms. It was not unusual for me to see my mom or a friend’s mother being interviewed on CNN one night and bringing snacks to soccer practice the next day. The women around me leaned in hard.
3 Ways to Cope When You Feel Like a Bad Mom
We’ve all been there. The triggers are different but the experience of feeling like “a bad mom” is one most people can relate to. I hear this a lot from my patients and I’ve certainly struggled with that feeling myself. The problem is not the feeling…